Well no SMSing = power. Certainly. But being ‘so busy’ usually means stressed at work and toy boy usually steers well clear during such craziness as it freaks him. Oops. So the question is, how to give the impression of being busy – with a hectic, exciting, social life – whilst not sending any texts?  And not coming across as a stress cadet to be avoided at all costs? Tricky! Time will tell..